WIRTW #775: the 'kindness' edition

What's wrong with kindness?

When I was a kid, I was taught: "Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me."

I disagree. Words can wound. They can demean. They can normalize cruelty and strip people of dignity. That's not strength, but weakness dressed up as bravado.

This week I was reminded of the choice we face every day in how we use our words. In a series of since-deleted comments to my LinkedIn post about the illegality of calling Black employees "monkeys," someone proudly declared:

➡️ that calling others "monkeys" is just free speech,
➡️ that he can call "whoever he wants a monkey,"
➡️ and that anyone who challenges that is undermining his freedom.

Technically, he's right: the First Amendment protects his right to say it. But here's the important part: free speech is not free of consequences, nor is it free of responsibility.

Which brings me back to my question: what's wrong with kindness?

Kindness invites connection.
Kindness builds trust.
Kindness strengthens communities and workplaces.
Kindness takes less effort than cruelty.
Kindness is the simpler, stronger choice.

Cruelty may get you attention, but kindness earns you respect.

So maybe the real question isn't "What am I free to say?" but "How will my words define me?" and "What impact will my words have on the people who hear them?"

None of us should want to be remembered for the insults we hurled, but for the kindness we offered.

The same is true at work. Cultures built on cruelty don't last. They burn people out, drive away talent, and create environments where fear replaces trust.

On the other hand, cultures built on kindness endure. They attract people who want to contribute, they foster collaboration, and they create workplaces where employees feel valued and respected. Kindness isn't just a moral choice, it's the smart business strategy that sustains organizations.

Choose kindness. Always.

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WIRTW #774: the 'daughter' edition

Yesterday was National Daughters Day, not to be confused with National Transfer Money to Your Daughter's Account Day (Oct. 6), International Daughters' Day (Sept. 28), Father-Daughter Day (Oct. 12), or National Son and Daughter Day (also Sept. 28).

I happen to host a podcast with my daughter — The Norah and Dad Show. We just released our 55th episode, covering our recent visit during Parents Weekend at her university. We discuss: dining, shopping, soccer, and an absolutely awful homecoming football game, the difference between "speech pathology" and "speech therapy," the meaning of community service, and why I canceled our Hulu subscription.

Here's a quick clip to whet your appetite.

You'll find the full episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, Overcast, on our website, or through your favorite podcast app. And if you enjoy it, please like, review, and subscribe—it really helps us grow!

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WIRTW #773: the 'free speech' edition

"Whoever would overthrow the Liberty of a Nation, must begin by subduing the Freeness of Speech; a Thing terrible to Publick Traytors."

— Benjamin Franklin, The New-England Courant, July 9, 1722.

"If there is a bedrock principle underlying the First Amendment, it is that the government may not prohibit the expression of an idea simply because society finds the idea offensive or disagreeable."
— U.S. Supreme Court, Texas v. Johnson (1989).

"The Thought Police would get him just the same. He had committed — would still have committed, even if he had never set pen to paper — the essential crime that contained all others in itself. Thoughtcrime, they called it. Thoughtcrime was not a thing that could be concealed for ever. You might dodge successfully for a while, even for years, but sooner or later they were bound to get you."
— George Orwell, 1984.

"Free speech is neither a privilege nor a partisan luxury. It's the oxygen of democracy. Without it, elections are hollow, dissent is branded illegitimate, or worse, and truth becomes whatever those in power decree. History shows that silencing speech is both the path by which authoritarians rise and the tool by which they endure."
— Jon Hyman, September 18, 2025.

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WIRTW #772: the 'drooly zerberts' edition

On this week's episode of The Norah and Dad Show, I check in with Norah as she kicks off her sophomore year of college. We talk about her experiences pledging a sorority, balancing two jobs, navigating classes, and how the dorm food is holding up.

It's a fun conversation about growth, responsibility, and finding your footing in year two of college life.

Below is a quick clip to whet your appetite.

You can listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, Overcast, on our website, or through your favorite podcast app. And if you enjoy it, please like, review, and subscribe—it really helps us grow!

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WIRTW #771: the 'americana' edition

Should out to the best band in the land, Old 97's. On Wednesday they will receive a Lifetime Achievement Award at the 2025 Americana Awards & Honors in Nashville. This honor is so well earned. They are an alt-Americana pioneer who have been making great music with the same lineup since 1994. In my humble opinion, this is also long overdue. 

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WIRTW #770: the 'season 4' edition

This week marks the launch of season 4(!) of The Norah and Dad Show podcast.

Norah and I chat about our summer, which included a trip to Boston + a trip to Peniche, and her getting settled in for her sophomore year away at college. It also included some unwanted visitors getting to know Norah a little too well (which you can hear all about in the clip below).

As an aside, we had a great summer having Norah home. It is different having an adult-aged child, and I genuinely enjoyed getting to know my daughter as an adult and developing a different type of relationship with her. 10/10. Highly recommended.

You can listen to this full episode on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, Amazon Music, Overcast, the web, and everywhere else you get your podcasts. And while you're there, hit the subscribe button to make sure you get new episodes delivered to you when they drop every other Tuesday.

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WIRTW #769: the 'slavery' edition

Donald Trump wants to make slavery great again.

In a rant on Truth Social, he fumed: "The Smithsonian is OUT OF CONTROL, where everything discussed is how horrible our Country is, how bad Slavery was… We are not going to allow this to happen.… This Country cannot be WOKE, because WOKE IS BROKE."

I can't believe I have to write this, but yes, slavery really was THAT BAD. Worse than bad. It was a centuries-long system of forced labor, racial terrorism, family separation, rape, murder, and dehumanization. It was chattel slavery—the commodification of human beings—on a scale unmatched in the Western world. It was, without exaggeration, the greatest moral stain on American history. Saying otherwise only displays your ignorance and bigotry.

Read the rest of this post at my Authoritarian Alarm Substack. (And while you're there, don't forget to subscribe.)

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WIRTW #768: the 'Peniche' edition

If you find yourself traveling through Portugal, don't overlook Peniche. This coastal town—set on a peninsula that juts into the Atlantic—is the westernmost city in continental Europe. Peniche is best known for four things: fishing, scenic vistas, surfing, and its long, wide, beautiful beaches. It also happens to be one of my favorite places in the world. 

Just an hour north of Lisbon and two hours south of Porto, Peniche makes an ideal stopover for a few days of relaxation between the two (as we did on our first trip to Portugal) or a beach vacation in its own right (as we did on our most recent visit).

Here are my suggestions for the top 7 things to do in and around Peniche:

1. Take a day trip to Berlenga Island: Hop on a boat to this stunning nature reserve, a UNESCO biosphere reserve,  for hiking, snorkeling, and exploring the 17th-century São João Baptista fort.

2. Wander the medieval streets of Óbidos: Step back in time in this charming walled town, known for its cobblestone alleys, whitewashed houses, and ginja, cherry liqueur served in chocolate cups.

3. Walk the rugged trail to Ilha do Papôa: Explore this small, rocky island connected by a narrow land bridge, offering stunning views, dramatic cliffs, and a touch of wild isolation just steps from town.

4. Catch world-class waves at Supertubos Beach: Peniche’s legendary surf spot known for its powerful barrels and international surf competitions. It's also much calmer in the summer, and there are dozens of surf schools that will teach any beginner. (Or, just walk the beach and watch others tempt the surf.)

5. Visit the Fort of Peniche: Explore this historic fortress-turned-political-prison that now serves as a powerful museum of Portugal's resistance to dictatorship.

6. Stroll the scenic cliffs at Cabo Carvoeiro: Marvel at dramatic ocean views and unique rock formations at Peniche’s westernmost point, which is even better when the sun is setting.

7. Explore the open-air art of Buddha Eden: 25 minutes from Peniche, you can stroll through acres of peaceful gardens filled with giant Buddha statues, contemporary sculptures, beautiful flora, and peacocks (so many peacocks) in Europe's largest Asian garden.

Bonus tip: Drive five minutes north up the coast along Baleal Beach, and eat brunch or lunch at Tugo's. The sandwiches and salads are the best around and the chill vibe blends well with the beach-town atmosphere. Ask for Hugo and tell him that Jon from Ohio sent you.

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WIRTW #767: the 'cerveja' edition

When part of your business involves providing legal representation to craft breweries, even vacation means finding a beer garden where you can sit, relax, and sample the local brews.

Saúde to Letaria, a craft brewery tucked inside Óbidos, Portugal—a 12th-century walled town that feels straight out of a fairytale. The beer was excellent, and the quiet beer garden offered the perfect escape from the bustle of a crowded summer weekend in this popular tourist hub.

If you ever find yourself there, don't skip the ginja, a sour cherry liqueur served in chocolate cups and sold all over town. It's as fun as it is delicious.

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WIRTW #766: the 'empathy' edition

Forty years ago this week, the world came together. On July 13, 1985, Live Aid united millions across borders—not out of politics, but out of compassion. No cynicism. No culture wars. Just humanity responding to suffering.

Can you imagine that happening today?

In a time when empathy is mocked as weakness and "America First" is used to justify indifference, we need to remember what real leadership—and real decency—looks like.

Over at my Substack, I share what Live Aid teaches us about the power of compassion—and why rediscovering it may be our best hope against rising authoritarianism.

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WIRTW #765: the 'It's a Bird… It's a Plane…' edition

Superman is an undocumented immigrant who punches Nazis. And if that makes him "woke," then maybe we need more woke heroes.

MAGAworld is melting down over James Gunn's Superman reboot because Gunn says that its a story about "immigrants and basic human kindness." Kellyanne Conway called it a woke lecture. Jesse Watters said his cape should say “MS13.”

Let's be clear: Superman has always been political.

• Created by two Jewish kids in 1938.
• A refugee from a dying planet.
• The Champion of the oppressed.
• A symbol of anti-fascism, decency, and justice.

If you think Superman is too political or too woke, you're not only misunderstanding him. You're also siding with the fascists he was created to punch.

I just wrote a full Substack piece digging into Superman's immigrant roots, his Jewish allegory, and why calling him "superwoke" completely misses the point. 

🧵 Read the full post here.
📬 And if you're not already subscribed to my Authoritarian Alarm Substack, what are you waiting for? Subscribe here.

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WIRTW #764: the 'substack' edition

Introducing Authoritarian Alarm: 

A New Home for a Critical Conversation

For the past 18+ years, I've written about the intersection of law, policy, and the American workplace. But more and more, the news I feel compelled to cover—and the commentary I'm driven to write—has expanded far beyond employment law and HR drama.

Because the truth is, something much bigger is happening in this country.

America today barely resembles the nation it claims to be. In our institutions, our politics, and even our public discourse, we're beginning to mirror the authoritarianism we've spent the last 249 years claiming to oppose. We're becoming what the Founding Fathers created this country to resist.

So I've launched something new: Authoritarian Alarm—a Substack newsletter dedicated to tracking America’s quickening slide into authoritarianism. My first post is now available: We've become everything we've fought against for 249 years.

If you've valued my perspective on these issues before, I hope you'll join me there. Subscribe, share, and help me sound the alarm.

Because silence is complicity.
And democracy doesn't defend itself.

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👉 Subscribe now for free to Authoritarian Alarm: https://jonhyman.substack.com

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WIRTW #763: the 'shiny and new' edition

Our new website is live!

I am excited to share that Wickens Herzer Panza has officially launched a completely redesigned website.

Our goal was simple: make it faster and easier to find our insights, resources, and people—while showcasing our depth and agility.

Our new site features a clean, modern design, along with refreshed and expanded content:

• Attorney Bios – Experience, focus areas, fun facts, and direct contact details.

• Practice Area & Industry Pages – Plain-language overviews of how we solve problems for businesses like yours.

• News & Alerts – Timely articles, case analyses, and thought leadership geared toward business owners and entrepreneurs.

• Firm Insights – Events, community involvement, and the culture that drives our client service.

Our refreshed branding—Big Firm Ability; Small Firm Agility—features prominently on the new home page. This isn't marketing rhetoric; it's who we are:

• Big Firm Ability – Seasoned lawyers, multi-disciplinary teams, and the bench strength to handle sophisticated transactions, complex litigation, and strategic planning.

• Small Firm Agility – Direct access to decision-makers, responsive service, and customized solutions delivered at the pace a business demands.

Massive shoutout to PaperStreet Web Design for knocking our new website out of the park!

Check out the new WickensLaw.com and let me know what you think. If you've got questions about how we can help you or your business, just grab my contact info right from the site.

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WIRTW #762: the 'cheers' edition

🚨 BREAKING: The death of craft beer has been greatly exaggerated.

According to a new 2024 economic impact study from the Ohio Craft Brewers Association, my state's craft brewing industry is very much alive and pouring.

📊 Consider this:

• $1.29 billion in economic output (up from $1.22 billion in 2022).
• 12,255 jobs supporting 8,095 households (up from around 11,500 jobs in 2022).
• $427.3 million in labor income created.
• Nearly $230 million paid in state and federal taxes (identical to 2022).
• 46 new breweries opened in 2024—with 53 more already in planning (bringing Ohio’s total to 442, up from 420 in 2022, 357 in 2020, and 300 in 2018).

That's not a dying industry. That's a growth industry.

But let's not sugarcoat it: challenges remain. Younger generations are drinking less beer. Tastes are shifting toward spirits, RTDs, non-alcoholic options, and cannabis. And tariffs on brewing equipment and ingredients continue to threaten and squeeze margins. It's not easy out there—but Ohio's brewers are adapting, evolving, and still finding ways to grow.

Moreover, this isn't just about pints. Ohio breweries are revitalizing neighborhoods, anchoring downtowns, hosting community events, and donating millions to charity.

So the next time someone says "craft beer is over," raise a pint and say: Not in Ohio.

🍻 Cheers to great beer and better data.

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WIRTW #761: the 'boss' edition

For over 50 years, Bruce Springsteen has been the voice of working people, dreamers, outcasts, and truth-tellers. His songs tell the story of real America—the kind with grit, heartbreak, hope, and heart.

And he's never been afraid to speak out—against injustice, against corruption, and yes, against authoritarian wannabes who mistake cruelty for strength.

So it's no surprise that Donald Trump has launched a full-on war against The Boss. He's called him a "radical left loser," a "dried up prune," and a "dumb rock star."

Cool. Because if Bruce is everything Trump hates, then maybe Bruce represents everything America should be.

June 14 is Donald Trump's birthday.
Let's take it back.

Let's turn it into something worth celebrating—not a day about narcissism and lies, but a day about music, truth, resistance, and unity.

We’re calling on Congress to declare June 14 as National Bruce Springsteen Day.

• A day to crank the volume.
• A day to remember the power of protest and poetry.
• A day to honor a man who’s never stopped fighting for the soul of this country.

Because you can't start a fire without a spark.
And Bruce Springsteen's been sparking the American spirit since 1973.

Sign the petition. Share it loud.
Let's reclaim the day—and remind the world who really represents the heart of America.

Let's make June 14 National Bruce Springsteen Day.
Because America deserves better than a birthday party for Trump.

Click here to sign the petition.

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WIRTW #760: the 'sportswashing' edition

What do you know about "sportswashing"? If you're like me, it's very little. That is, until I asked ChatGPT.

Sportswashing is a practice by which governments use sports to improve or launder a tarnished reputation. I needed to education myself on this topic fairly quickly so that I could read my son's 10th grade history research paper with a base of knowledge upon which to critique it.

So, I activated ChatGPT's deep research tool in its new 4.1 model and asked the following: "Can you draft a detailed and persuasive memo on sportswashing in global football."

ChatGPT responded with some follow-up questions:

1. Who is the intended audience? (e.g., general public, a school project, a policy maker, a sports organization)
2. Do you want the memo to focus on specific countries or cases, like Russia 2018, Qatar 2022, or Trump's involvement in 2026?
3. Should the memo include proposed actions or solutions, or just explain the issue?
4. How long or in-depth would you like the memo to be?

I answered: University-level research paper; No; Propose solutions; 10 pages, double-spaced. And off it went. 15 minutes later, I had my results—a well-researched and detailed memo on the issue—which can download and read here.

This experience highlights both the powerful advantages of using generative AI tools like ChatGPT for legal and professional research. Still, I'd be remiss if I didn't point out their inherent risks.

On one hand, ChatGPT's speed, breadth of knowledge, and ability to produce clear, structured analysis can dramatically enhance efficiency—delivering well-informed content in minutes that might otherwise take hours, days, or even weeks. This democratizes access to complex topics and supports professionals in making faster, more informed decisions.

On the other hand, reliance on AI-generated content without critical review can be risky. ChatGPT, while capable, is not infallible and may present information that lacks nuance, context, or up-to-date accuracy.

For legal professionals in particular—where precision, source validation, and ethical responsibility are paramount—AI should be treated as a powerful assistant, not as a substitute for human expertise and judgment. Used thoughtfully, it can be an important tool; used carelessly, it may lead to oversights or misinformed conclusions. Blind reliance without verification is reckless and irresponsible. Nevertheless, I remain impressed by the work product that ChatGPT can produce, and can't wait to see how it continues to develop, evolve, and improve.

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WIRTW #759: the 'HBD' edition

🎉 My blog is officially an adult. Last week, it turned 18 years old.

On May 9, 2007, I hit "publish" on my very first post. It was about a Supreme Court retaliation case, because of course it was. It's fascinating to see how my tone and style have matured (or, perhaps more accurately, immatured) over the years.

Fast forward to today: 4,470 posts later, and this blog is somehow still going strong. That's:
✅ Millions of words on employment law
✅ Hundreds of stories about HR disasters

✅ 759 "What I Read This Week" lists
✅ Dozens of "Worst Employer" nominees
✅ Too many musical references no one asked for

When I started, blogs were cutting edge. LinkedIn barely existed. Twitter was a baby. AI was still science fiction. And I honestly didn't know if anyone other than my dad would read this thing. (He still does.)

Eighteen years in, the blog has given me a platform, a voice, and a way to connect with readers, clients, reporters, and colleagues around the world. It's also brought me lasting friendships and provided a much-needed creative escape from the daily grind of practicing law.

Thanks to everyone who's read, shared, commented, or said, "Hey, I actually like reading legal content." You’ve kept me writing—day after day, week after week, year after year.

Here's to the next 18!

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WIRTW #758: the 'craft' edition

Ohio showed up and showed out at last week's World Beer Cup in Indianapolis. 

The World Beer Cup — the most prestigious beer competition in the world—is dubbed "the Olympics of beer." Organized by the Brewers Association, the now annual event has been held since 1996 in conjunction with the Craft Brewers Conference. 

This year's competition drew 8,375 entries from 1,761 breweries and cideries representing 49 countries. Medals—Gold, Silver, and Bronze—were awarded across 117 categories.

Ohio breweries earned a total of 11 medals, including three for local favorite Fat Head's: two Golds and a Silver. Impressively, Fat Head's has medaled at every World Beer Cup since 2012—a streak that, according to my research, no other brewery in the world has matched.

You can watch the 2025 awards ceremony here and view the full list of winners here. Next year’s World Beer Cup will be held on April 23 in Philadelphia.

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WIRTW #757: the 'that's how I'm feeling' edition

For a glorious 90 minutes last Wednesday night, my kids and I forgot all of our worries and bonded with 2,000 like-minded souls over the music of Mr. Jack White.I love the music of Jack White. I fell in love with a band at Cleveland's Beachland Ballroom on August 10, 2001. The White Stripes were playing that night. I didn't know much about them before that concert. I had heard about some up and coming band, brother/sister (maybe) duo. I went to the Beachland to check them out. I was hooked by the opening chord from Jack's guitar and enraptured by the end of their set. I couldn't find any video online from that show, but I did find a complete recording of a show they did in London just four days earlier.

I've since passed that love on to my children, which brought us front and center at Cleveland's Agora last Wednesday night. You can hear all about it on this week's installment of The Norah and Dad Show (with special guest, Donovan) — available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, YouTube, Overcast, your web browser, and everywhere else you get your podcasts.

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While you're checking out things I recorded this week, also check out my appearance on Backstage Pass: The HR Rock Star Podcast.

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WIRTW #756: the 'iii' edition

You can tell from the tone and tenor of my recent posts that the current state of my country, politics, and democracy has me concerned and scared. Which is why last night was so, so good for my soul.

If you are a fan of rock 'n' roll and have the chance to see Jack White live, just do it. Hard stop. It was an amazing night from start to finish. More next week, as it will be the focus of the next episode of The Norah and Dad Show.

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