At least, that's the message some employers are sending as companies like Deloitte and Zoom slash paid parental leave and other family-friendly benefits.
And make no mistake, employees are paying attention.
For the past decade, and particularly since Covid sent most workers to their homes, employers spent a lot of time telling workers that they cared about things like "work-life balance." Companies competed to offer expanded parental leave, fertility coverage, adoption assistance, remote work flexibility, and caregiving support.
Now? Some of those same employers are quietly walking it all back, simply because they can.
When the labor market tightens, employers become generous. When the labor market softens, many revert to form. As the New York Times reports, Deloitte recently cut family leave in half for certain employees while also reducing vacation and eliminating adoption, surrogacy, and IVF support for some workers. Zoom also trimmed its parental leave offerings.
This isn't really about whether 16 weeks is objectively better than 8 weeks. It's about what these decisions communicate culturally.
Benefits are values statements. When an employer expands paid leave, it signals: "We understand employees have lives and families outside of work."
When an employer cuts those benefits, employees hear something very different: "Those priorities matter less now." Workers, however, have long memories about how companies behave during difficult moments.
The irony is that employers spent years learning the important lesson that flexibility and family-supportive policies are not merely perks. They are recruiting and retention tools. They help reduce turnover. They help keep women in the workforce. They help employees stay engaged and productive. That lesson apparently becomes easier to forget when quarterly budgets tighten.
To be fair, not every company is retreating. Starbucks recently expanded parental leave for retail workers. Some employers still understand that supporting working parents is good business, not charity.
But the broader trend matters because it reflects a changing employer mindset.
The post-pandemic rhetoric about empathy, employee wellness, and caregiving responsibilities is colliding with economic reality and political backlash against anything perceived as adjacent to DEI initiatives. Family-friendly policies increasingly are being viewed not as business necessities, but as optional costs.
That's shortsighted.
The United States already lags virtually every industrialized nation in paid family leave protections. Most American workers still depend entirely on employer generosity because there is no federal paid leave guarantee.
Which means every employer decision in this space carries outsized weight. Employees notice who supports families when times are hard. They also notice who stops supporting them the moment the leverage shifts.